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Scenario

Why compulsive checking behaviors persist despite rational understanding

I cannot stop checking my ex's social media even though it makes me feel terrible and I know I need to move on

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A firefighter part uses checking behaviors to soothe exile parts' abandonment pain while maintaining connection fantasy.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Parts work and Internal Family Systems?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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