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Scenario

How past attachments haunt present intimacy

I cannot stop having sexual fantasies about my ex even though I am in a loving relationship and have no desire to actually be with them again.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The erotic imagination often carries unresolved attachment energy, seeking completion through fantasy when integration feels impossible.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attachment theory — complete guide?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.