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How past attachments haunt present intimacy

I cannot stop having sexual fantasies about my ex even though I am in a loving relationship and have no desire to actually be with them again.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The erotic imagination often carries unresolved attachment energy, seeking completion through fantasy when integration feels impossible.

Ideas that help explain it
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