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When dhikr feels manipulative rather than devotional

I do dhikr to calm down when I am angry but it just makes me more agitated because I feel like I am using Allah as a coping mechanism

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The instrumentalization of spiritual practice for emotional regulation creates guilt about the purity of one's relationship with the divine.

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