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When intense attraction turns to suffocation

I fall completely in love within weeks and then feel suffocated and trapped once they reciprocate, and this has happened four times in two years.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The attachment system confuses intensity with intimacy, seeking the familiar chaos of unpredictable love.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attachment theory — complete guide?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.