Periagoge
Scenario

Why you're attracted to unavailable people

I fall in love immediately with people who are unavailable and lose interest as soon as they become available and I'm tired of this pattern.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Familiar patterns of longing feel more like love than actual availability because the nervous system confuses intensity with intimacy.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attachment in adult relationships?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.