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Scenario

When fasting becomes spiritually counterproductive due to anger

I fast Ramadan perfectly but spend the whole month angry at my family and I know this defeats the purpose but I cannot control my irritation

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

External ritual observance proceeds while internal purification fails, revealing the gap between form and essence.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Islamic psychology — nafs and spiritual wellbeing?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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