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Scenario

When other people's needs trigger immediate nervous system activation

I feel completely calm and centered until someone needs something from me and then I instantly become anxious and resentful.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A nervous system conditioned to prioritize others' needs may activate stress responses when personal boundaries are challenged.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Polyvagal theory in practice?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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