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How relationships reveal our fragmented selves

I feel completely different depending on who I am with and cannot tell which version of myself is real anymore.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Without a secure internal anchor, the self becomes a mirror reflecting others' needs, losing coherence in the process.

Ideas that help explain it
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