I feel desperate for my partner's attention but then irritated and suffocated when they give it to me, and I cannot make sense of what I actually want.
More people experience this than they realize.
The psyche holds contradictory needs simultaneously - for connection and autonomy, safety and aliveness - creating internal chaos when both cannot be integrated.
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Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.