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Scenario

Why self-care triggers shame instead of satisfaction

I feel guilty every time I spend money on myself even though I work hard and can afford it.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The inner child absorbed messages that their needs and desires were selfish, making self-nurturing feel morally wrong.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Inner child work and reparenting?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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