Periagoge
Scenario

When conditional self-worth drives relentless performance

I feel like I have to earn love by being perfect and I'm exhausted from trying

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The ego has learned to equate existence with achievement, creating an impossible standard for basic acceptance.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Cognitive distortions — identification and change?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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