I feel most connected to my partner during fights because at least then I know they care enough to engage with me.
More people experience this than they realize.
The system learned that negative attention is more reliable than positive, making conflict feel safer than peace.
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Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.