Periagoge
Scenario

When you discover that accommodating others has been optional all along

I have been forcing myself to make eye contact for twenty years and I just learned it is not actually required and now I don't know what else I am doing unnecessarily.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The realization that painful adaptive strategies were choices rather than requirements destabilizes the entire framework of social interaction.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Autism spectrum — lived experience?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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