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Scenario

How to accept comfort in secure relationships

I have been happily married for five years but still flinch when my wife tries to comfort me when I am upset.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The body holds memories of failed comfort, making present care feel dangerous even when the mind knows it is safe.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attachment theory — complete guide?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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