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Scenario

Why the impulse to fix blocks witnessing in support groups

I have been in this contemplative men's group for three years and every time I cry someone immediately tries to fix me or give advice and I just want to be seen without being solved.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The discomfort with witnessing pain is driving premature rescue attempts that prevent genuine connection.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Psychological safety in communities?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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