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How to Discover Your Authentic Self After Decades of People-Pleasing

I have been people-pleasing my entire life and I am fifty-five and I do not know who I am underneath all this performance.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Chronic adaptation to others' needs and expectations has obscured connection to authentic desires, preferences, and identity.

Ideas that help explain it
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