Periagoge
Scenario

How authenticity threatens relationships built on false self-presentation

I have been people-pleasing my whole life and now that I am trying to be authentic everyone says I have changed and they do not like it

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Dismantling people-pleasing parts reveals that some relationships were dependent on self-abandonment rather than genuine connection.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Parts work and Internal Family Systems?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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