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Scenario

When self-development becomes a way to avoid intimacy

I have been single for four years working on myself but I am starting to wonder if I am using personal growth to avoid the messiness of relationship.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Extended periods of individual work can become a sophisticated form of avoiding the growth that only happens through intimate relating.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Resilience — the science and the practice?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.