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When waiting to feel ready becomes a form of avoidance

I have been waiting to feel ready to have children for six years and I think ready is just a story I tell myself to avoid the fact that life is always uncertain.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Perfectionist narratives about readiness can mask existential anxiety about life's inherent unpredictability and vulnerability.

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