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Scenario

When waiting to feel ready becomes a form of avoidance

I have been waiting to feel ready to have children for six years and I think ready is just a story I tell myself to avoid the fact that life is always uncertain.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Perfectionist narratives about readiness can mask existential anxiety about life's inherent unpredictability and vulnerability.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Narrative therapy and story-rewriting?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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