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When you can't say I love you first

I have never been able to say I love you first in any relationship and I'm thirty-eight and tired of always being the one holding back.

Patan
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Fear of emotional exposure prevents authentic expression when vulnerability feels like handing someone ammunition for future harm.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attachment in adult relationships?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.