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Scenario

When availability kills attraction

I have perfect relationships with people who live far away or are unavailable but lose all attraction the moment someone is actually present and wanting me.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The heart learned to equate love with longing, making presence feel threatening and absence feel safe.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attachment theory — complete guide?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.