Periagoge
Scenario

When exile parts crave connection with harmful people

I have this young part of me that feels desperate for my father's approval even though he has been emotionally abusive my whole life

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A young exile part maintains hope for repair while protective parts cannot override the core attachment need driving the system.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Parts work and Internal Family Systems?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.