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When exile parts crave connection with harmful people

I have this young part of me that feels desperate for my father's approval even though he has been emotionally abusive my whole life

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A young exile part maintains hope for repair while protective parts cannot override the core attachment need driving the system.

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Worth thinking about

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