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How splitting destroys relationships

I idealize people completely and then hate them the moment they disappoint me and I know this is wrong but cannot stop it

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More people experience this than they realize.

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All-or-nothing thinking protects against ambiguity but eliminates the nuanced perception required for sustained connection.

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