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Scenario

How splitting destroys relationships

I idealize people completely and then hate them the moment they disappoint me and I know this is wrong but cannot stop it

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

All-or-nothing thinking protects against ambiguity but eliminates the nuanced perception required for sustained connection.

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Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Worth thinking about

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Peri

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