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How abandonment patterns repeat in friendship

I keep choosing friends who abandon me just like my father did and I can't understand why I don't learn.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Unconscious familiarity with abandonment creates attraction to relationships that replay early wounding.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with History as pattern recognition?”

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