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Why you're attracted to people who need fixing

I keep choosing men who need fixing and then I'm exhausted from trying to heal them and resentful when they don't change.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Caretaking patterns provide illusion of control over relationship outcomes while avoiding vulnerability of being truly seen.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attachment in adult relationships?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.