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Why you're attracted to people who can't commit

I keep dating younger men who aren't looking for anything serious and I know I want commitment but I can't make myself date age-appropriate guys.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Unconscious patterns seek familiar emotional landscapes even when conscious goals require different relational terrains.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attachment in adult relationships?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.