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When Recurring Arguments Mask Deeper Issues

I keep having the same fight with my husband about money and we both know we are not really fighting about money.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Surface conflicts are serving as containers for unexpressed needs and fears that feel too vulnerable to address directly.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

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