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Scenario

Why couples repeat the same arguments and how to break the cycle

I keep having the same fight with my husband about money and we both know exactly what the other person is going to say but we can't stop ourselves.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Relationship patterns become unconscious scripts where each person's defensive reaction triggers the other's, creating a closed loop immune to rational intervention.

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