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Scenario

When you become your parents in arguments

I keep having the same fight with my partner about money and I can hear myself saying the exact words my father used to say and I hate it but I cannot stop

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Unconscious identification with parental patterns overrides conscious intentions during emotional activation.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Psychoanalytic frameworks for self-understanding?”

Peri

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