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How to stop rehearsing conversations that already happened

I keep replaying the fight I had with my sister three weeks ago, thinking of better things I could have said, and I can't let it go.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The ego constructs elaborate fantasies of vindication to avoid feeling the raw hurt of disconnection.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Rumination and psychological loops?”

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