Periagoge
Scenario

How to stop rehearsing conversations that already happened

I keep replaying the fight I had with my sister three weeks ago, thinking of better things I could have said, and I can't let it go.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The ego constructs elaborate fantasies of vindication to avoid feeling the raw hurt of disconnection.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Rumination and psychological loops?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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