Periagoge
Scenario

When surrender becomes manipulation

I keep trying to surrender to what is but I realize I am using surrender as a strategy to get what I want and this feels completely backwards.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The egoic mind co-opts spiritual concepts like acceptance as techniques for indirect control rather than genuine letting go.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Socratic dialogue as method?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.