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Why setting boundaries feels impossible for people pleasers

I know I need boundaries but every time I try to set one I feel cruel and end up apologizing.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Boundary-setting triggers survival fears in those whose early safety depended on others' approval and emotional regulation.

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