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Scenario

How to break the cycle of needing constant reassurance

I know my boyfriend loves me but I need constant reassurance and I can see it's exhausting him and pushing him away which makes me need more reassurance.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Seeking external validation to regulate internal anxiety creates the very distance it attempts to prevent.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attachment in adult relationships?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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