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When intellectual self-worth doesn't change validation seeking

I know my worth doesn't depend on other people's approval but I still check my phone obsessively for validation.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Cognitive understanding cannot override nervous system patterns that equate external approval with safety.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Emotional intelligence as knowledge system?”

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