I need routine to function but my partner calls it rigidity and wants spontaneous adventures and I don't know how to explain that flexibility feels like chaos.
More people experience this than they realize.
The frameworks that enable stability and function are misunderstood as character deficits by those who don't share the same neurological needs.
“Where Are You with Autism spectrum — lived experience?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.