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Scenario

How to know if compassion practice is genuine or performative

I practice loving-kindness meditation but I still feel irritated by my coworkers and judgmental about strangers and wonder if I am just pretending to be compassionate.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Formal loving-kindness practice may not penetrate conditioned reactive patterns without specific integration work.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Deliberate practice and skill acquisition?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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