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Why loving-kindness practice can lead to poor boundaries

I practice loving-kindness toward everyone but I have no boundaries and people walk all over me constantly.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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Spiritual ideals are being used to avoid the necessary discrimination between skillful and unskillful engagement.

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