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Scenario

When avoiding solitude leads to self-estrangement

I realized last week that I have spent forty-five years avoiding being alone with myself and now I do not know who I am when no one else is around.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Chronic avoidance of solitude can create disconnection from authentic selfhood, leaving identity dependent on external reflection and validation.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Existential psychology — meaning death freedom?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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