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How spiritual language can weaponize shame about suffering

I shared about my family addiction history in our recovery dharma group and someone said I was still caught in victim consciousness and I felt shame about my pain for weeks.

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The misapplication of non-attachment teachings is being used to invalidate legitimate grief about real harm.

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