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When memory systems replace heartfelt attention

I use flashcards to remember my family's birthdays and anniversaries but my wife says it feels mechanical and unloving

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

External tools can diminish the internal capacity for care, creating efficiency at the cost of authentic connection.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Spaced repetition and the science of remembering?”

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