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When memory tools create shame about forgotten practices

I use spaced repetition to remember self-care habits but reviewing the cards makes me feel guilty about not doing them

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

External reminders of unmet commitments to oneself can intensify self-criticism rather than supporting gentle return to beneficial habits.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Spaced repetition and the science of remembering?”

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