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Scenario

Why interest from others kills your attraction

I want to be in a relationship but when men show interest I immediately find them unattractive and start focusing on their flaws.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Receiving genuine attention activates unconscious beliefs about unworthiness that must be resolved by rejecting the giver.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attachment in adult relationships?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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