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Scenario

When your partner threatens self-harm to prevent breakup

I want to break up with my girlfriend but she says she'll hurt herself if I leave and I feel trapped and responsible for her wellbeing.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Emotional manipulation creates false responsibility for another person's life choices while preventing authentic relationship conclusions.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attachment in adult relationships?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.