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Scenario

When forgiveness feels impossible but holding grudges is also painful

I've been trying to forgive my brother for ten years and I'm exhausted from trying but holding onto anger is also exhausting.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The forced pursuit of forgiveness can become another form of self-violence when natural emotional processing has been bypassed rather than honored.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with ACT — acceptance and commitment?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.