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When journaling becomes avoidance of grief

My best friend died suddenly and I cannot decide whether to keep writing to her in my journal or stop because it feels like I am avoiding grief by pretending she can still hear me.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Written communication with the deceased may serve as both genuine connection and unconscious denial of loss and finality.

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