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Scenario

When Keeping One Friend's Secret Means Deceiving Another Friend

My best friend is planning to leave her husband and asked me not to tell anyone, but her husband is also my friend and keeps asking me why she seems distant.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Loyalty to one person can require betraying trust and honesty with another person we also care about.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Moral psychology — how we make ethical decisions?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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