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Scenario

When commitment triggers claustrophobia

My boyfriend wants to move in together and I want that too but the thought of sharing space every day makes me feel like I can't breathe.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Unconscious fears of losing autonomy transform desired intimacy into perceived imprisonment requiring escape routes.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attachment in adult relationships?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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