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Why job loss feels personal even when you know it's not

My company laid me off after fifteen years and I know it's not personal but I can't stop taking it personally and feeling worthless.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Professional identity becomes so intertwined with self-worth that external validation's removal triggers existential questioning beyond rational understanding of circumstances.

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