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Why conscious relaxation sometimes increases tension

My massage therapist says I hold stress in my shoulders but when I try to relax them they immediately tense up again like they have their own mind.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Chronic muscular holding patterns often serve protective functions that resist direct relaxation attempts without addressing underlying safety concerns.

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