My meditation teacher says I should not take things personally but when she publicly corrected my posture in front of everyone I felt humiliated and now I am supposed to not take that personally either.
More people experience this than they realize.
The instruction to transcend personal reactivity is being used to bypass responsibility for creating safer relational containers.
“Where Are You with Psychological safety in communities?”
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